6 Ebook – 2 Audio Program Bundle For Non Borderlines
This purchase bundle of 6 ebooks and 2 audio programs is for those who are a family member, loved one, ex or relationship partner – non borderlines.
This purchase package is for those who are Non Borderline. All 6 ebooks provide an indepth examination, exploration, and explanation of Borderline Personality from the inside out.
Included in this 6 ebook purchase package are the following ebooks:
You can read a brief summary of each ebook by scrolling down the page.
- The Abandoned Pain of Borderline Personality Disorder
- The Legacy of Abandonment in Borderline Personality Disorder
- The Shadows and Echoes of Self – The False Self in Borderline Personality Disorder
- The Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder – Mindfulness and Radical Acceptance For Non Borderlines
- Full Circle – Lessons For Non Borderlines
- The Dilemma on the Other Side of BPD – Can Borderlines Love? Do Borderlines Feel Love?
The Abandoned Pain of Borderline Personality Disorder
“The Abandoned Pain of Borderline Personality Disorder – A.J. Mahari gives a detailed history of how and why the abandoned pain of those with BPD keeps them stuck in the agonizing and seemingly mystifying suffering of BPD.
Mahari examines the reality that, for those diagnosed with BPD, the abandonment of one’s own pain is the result of the distorted belief that it must be escaped at all costs. Outling that those who go on to develop BPD had to initially abandon their pain in order to actually survive psychologically, albeit in fragmented pieces. However, in adulthood those with BPD must now welcome back in this abandoned and dissociated pain in order to integrate the fragments of self. It is these fragments of self and the loss of one’s authentic self that leaves those with BPD without a known identity or stable sense of a known self. Being held at bay, dissociated from one’s own authentic self by this abandoned borderline pain is what keeps those with BPD so stuck in untold profound suffering, isolation, learned helplessness, and alienated loneliness.
The Legacy of Abandonment in Borderline Personality Disorder
This ebook presents a thorough examination and explanation of the core wound of abandonment in BPD exploring various aspects of what A.J. has termed the “core wound of abandonment” that she identified in her journey of recovery as the wound that is central to what BPD actually is and how and why it persists. Mahari examines what she calls “the core wound of abandonment” as one who has been there, as a woman who had BPD and has recovered.
The anatomy of the core wound of abandonment is examined and explained. Along with her own experience of abandonment and her ruptured relationship with her own mother, A.J. has written an unbelievably detailed and insightful examination and explanation of the core wound of abandonment. A.J. offers her readers, in this ebook, a detailed look at how and why the core wound of abandonment is so destructive to those with BPD and everyone who gets anywhere near them relationally. A.J. writes that the destruction of the core wound of abandonment leads directly to the loss of self – a loss of authentic self that creates the false self organization of Borderline Personality Disorder. She also offers solutions and maps out the things that every borderline needs to learn if they want to recover, as A.J. has. A.J. shares the steps that she had to take, the pitfalls that block change and the awareness required to get on and stay on the road of and to recovery.
The Shadows and Echoes of Self – The False Self That is Born Out of the Core Wound of Abandonment
The Shadows and Echoes of Self is a 127 pages providing an in-depth and revealing examination of the false self personality organization of Borderline Personality Disorder that arises out of the core wound of abandonment. Included is a comprehensive look at the similarities and differences between Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). A.J. Mahari delves into the subject of cultural narcissism as a backdrop for the narcissism housed within BPD exploring the reality that narcissism is not just a stalwart of NPD. Mahari explores various archetypes and myths aimed at increasing the readers understanding of narcissism in a cultural context.
And A.J.’s 3 ebooks aimed specifically at Non Borderlines
* The Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder – Mindfulness and Radical Acceptance for Non Borderlines
* Full Circle – Lessons For Non Borderlines
* The Dilemma On The Other Side of BPD – Can Borderlines Love? Do Borderlines Feel Love?
The Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder – Mindfulness and Radical Acceptance For Non Borderlines
This ebook consists of eight chapters that will enhance the journey of anyone who has (or has had) a borderline in his/her life. A.J. Mahari writes insightfully about how Non-Borderlines can free themselves from the chaotic painful drama of the borderline in their lives through the practice of Mindfulness and Radical Acceptance.
When a non-borderline is lost in the tumultuous world of a borderline it can cause untold pain and suffering. A.J. outlines 3 reasons why non-borderlines often remain hooked into the borderline’s drama. Mahari also outlines the 3 main roadblocks to the practice of Radical Acceptance for Non-Borderlines as well as describing what keeps non-borderlines trapped in their own pain and suffering.
Full Circle – Lessons For Non Borderlines
A.J. Mahari was in the non-borderline role as a child with 2 parents with Borderline Personality Disorder. She shares the lessons that experience taught her. She then grew and developed and was diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder. Years later, at the age of 38 she recovered from Borderline Personality Disorder. Then six years after her recovery from BPD she found herself in a complicated and most unusual significant other relationship with an untreated borderline. Mahari has experienced it all and come out of it all on the other side, healthier, stronger, more insightful and much wiser for the lessons. This ebook is a must read for anyone in a relationship with someone with BPD.
The Dilemma on the Other Side of BPD – Can Borderlines Love? Do Borderlines Feel Love?
The Dilemma on the other side of Borderline Personality Disorder, for the Non Borderline is a painful one. It is a dilemma driven by many questions. The source of those questions can be difficult for non borderlines to face. A.J. Mahari addresses what is at the heart of the non borderline dilemma, can borderlines love? Do borderlines feel love? Mahari not only answers these questions from the perspective of a recovered borderline but she also explains with incredible and unique insight of one who has been there why borderlines love the way that they do.
This ebook is 101 pages of must-read insight for the non borderline. If you are in a relationship with someone with Borderline Personality Disorder, significant other, friend, relative, you will want to read what A.J. Mahari reveals about Borderline Personality Disorder and love.
And Two Audio Programs for Non Borderlines:
- The Breaking Free of The BPD Maze – Recovery For Non Borderlines
- Dilemma on The Other Side of BPD – Overcoming Denial about BPD and Love
Breaking Free of The Borderline Maze and Overcoming Denial About BPD Love Audios Program
“Breaking Free of The Borderline Maze – Recovery For Nons” Audio Programs by A.J. Mahari
This audio program is 1 hour and 25 minutes of Mahari’s must hear insight and experience. A.J. Mahari speaks from the heart and from experience to those Non Borderlines who need to end their relationship with someone with BPD. Mahari also speaks directly to those who may have ended a relationship (or who have experienced a relationship that has ended by the borderline) but are still having trouble letting go and who may still be more focused on the borderline to the point that it is not good for their own mental health.
Tracks in This Audio Program include:
- Track 1: Why am I still stuck? Why does it still hurt so much?
- Track 2: Mistakes Are Growth Opportunities. Are you ready to Learn Your Way Out of the Maze on the Other Side of BPD?
- Track 3: Trying to Make Sense Out of the Senseless
- Track 4: Two Paths and Two Choices – Are you at this fork in the road on the other side of BPD?
- Track 5: Recovery For Non Borderlines – What it is and why you need it.
“The Dilemma On the Other Side of BPD – Overcoming Denial About Borderline Personality Disorder and Love” Audio Program by A.J. Mahari
This audio program is 2 1/2 hours of Mahari’s must hear insight and experience on and about the reality of love and BPD for non borderlines. In the audio program, “The Dilemma On the Other Side of BPD – Overcoming Denial About Borderline Personality Disorder and Love” A.J. Mahari shares revealing insightful information about Borderline Personality Disorder and Love – How to Break Out and Stay out of Denial. Non Borderlines in any type of relationship with someone with BPD will benefit from hearing A.J.’s insider knowledge about love and BPD.
Tracks in This Audio Program include:
- Track 1 – 10:38 How Does The Non Borderline End Up In So Much Pain and Denial?
- Track 2 – 18:47 The Reality of Borderline False Self and Love – A.J. Shares Her Inside Experience
- Track 3 – 32:58 BPD: What Does Love Have To Do With It?
- Track 4 – 64:11 The Real Hostage Taker In The Arena of Love On The Other Side of BPD
- Track 5 – 32:02 What is the Story that Fuels Your Denial and The Dilemma?
Audios – Non Borderlines © A.J. Mahari 2007
All Audio Programs are in mp3 format. All Ebooks are in PDF format. Audio Programs and Ebooks are available for electronic download only upon purchase.